Absolutely (it's also a way to treat allergies) -- but a lot depends on what, where and how. A mild annoyance when people think there's nothing they can do about it -- sure. Something that too many people find a serious annoyance, and when someone running for the legislature promise to pass a law to "fix it" -- not so much. Some places desensitization hasn't seemed to work for wrecked cars up on blocks on folks' front lawns.Sam1911 said:...To be absolutely fair and balanced, though, it would be best to point out that desensitization is a proven scientific and sociological phenomenon....
But consider in more depth how some of those things came to be. It wasn't just a matter of the guy at the convenience store, the clerk at the grocery, the local bartender, etc., wearing an earring. It wasn't just a matter of seeing a high school teacher and his "friend" holding hands at the mall.Sam1911 said:...But in time, jeans with a jacket become acceptable dinner wear, longer hair and an earring become unobjectionable -- even on your doctor, two men can hold hands in public without being beaten up,...
New fashions generally take hold when validated by the public conduct of the "trend setters" -- the actors showing up in jeans with a jacket on Jay Leno, the sports figure wearing long hair and an earring when being interviewed on ESPN. Who thinks we can look forward to Tom Cruise sporting an openly carried 1911 at some glitterati garden party?
The broadening public acceptance of gays is another, and more complex matter:
- There has been significant support for gay rights from mainstream media, academia and even some influential religious organizations.
- Many people active in the struggle for gay rights were straight.
- The gay rights movement was tremendously helped by the fact that it turns out that many gays were well liked, well regarded, prominent and influential public figures (especially in the arts), all of whom had well established public personae independent of their sexual orientation prior to the revelation that they are gay.
- Many of those gay public figures are also extremely affluent and have been able to pour considerable money into support of politicians who support gay rights. (And many of those public figures are also using their money and influence to promote gun control.)
And when considered in depth, reaching this point also involved a well orchestrate journey guided by savvy leaders down well thought out paths. For example:Sam1911 said:...maybe even black people can sit wherever they want to on the bus...
- On 1 December 1955, Rosa Parks was the third African-American since March of that year to be arrested for violating the Montgomery bus segregation law. That night, Jo Ann Robinson, head of the Women's Political Council, printed and circulated a flyer throughout Montgomery's black community starting the call for a boycott of Montgomery's city buses.
Martin Luther King, Jr., as president of the Montgomery Improvement Association and pastor of the Dexter Avenue Baptist Church, together with other Black community leaders, then organized the boycott of the Montgomery bus system. That boycott reduced Black ridership (the bulk of the bus system's paying customers) of Montgomery city buses by some 90% until December of 1956 when the Supreme Court ruled that the bus segregation laws of Montgomery, Alabama were unconstitutional (Gayle v. Browder, 352 U.S. 903 (1956)).
Mrs. Parks actions and arrest were part of a well orchestrated, well organized, program leading to a successful conclusion.
- The Civil Rights Movement of the '50s and '60s had broad and deep support. The goals of the Civil Rights Movement were promoted regularly in sermons in churches and synagogues all across the nation and editorials in major mainstream media. The Civil Rights Movement had charismatic leaders like Martin Luther King who could inspire the country.
- Civil Rights demonstration were joined and actively supported by many Whites.
Sometimes and in some places.Sam1911 said:...A right exercised frequently, commonly, and openly becomes unexceptional and increasingly less objectionable....