only1asterisk's post reminded me of the situation at my local Wal-Mart-- the door checkers are senior citizens 90% of the time. I've thought that maybe the reason for this is that many people would find it harder to be rude to an elderly person than they would a teenager or middle-aged person. But here's my problem...
Three times in the last few years, I've activated the door alarm as I was leaving with paid-for merchandise. The first two times, the door person went through all of my stuff as I stood there embarrassed while all the entering/exiting customers looked at me like I was some sort of shoplifting pond scum. The first time, it turned out there was an "alarm sticker" under the plastic child-seat of the cart. The second time, I had exchanged a clock (an "alarm" clock, no less) and apparently the girl in the clock section didn't deactivate the alarm tag. I was a little steamed both times, but I just couldn't bring myself to tell the door checker to "stuff it" and just leave-- who could be rude to an elderly person who didn't cause either one of these problems? But I am getting a little tired of being embarrassed this way so...
After the second "alarm incident" I resolved that in the future, when this alarm goes off, I'll just keep on walking and not let myself get into the situation where my bags are getting searched. I know I didn't steal anything and that alarm is not my problem. I got a chance to try this out just recently. My stepfather and I paid for a pellet rifle at the sporting goods counter, and, sure enough, the alarm went off. My stepfather didn't even notice it and we just kept walking. About twenty yards into the parking lot, a W-M employee came to the door and shouted to us-- I just waved and kept on walking and that was the end of it. Problem solved. Not the perfect solution, but this is how I'll try to handle this problem in the future and hopefully there'll be a minimum of problems for everyone.
I worked retail at Winn-Dixie for nine years, so I can appreciate the hassles of dealing with the shopping public, but Wal-Mart really needs to do something about those alarms.
-Chris W.