J-Bar
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On a first date I learned her father and brother hunted and fished and that she was raised on quail shot over a brace of English Setters. We are nearing our 46th wedding anniversary.
Flintknapper said:NEVER!
With women...the list of things to argue about is long.....why knowingly add to it.
I'm really tired of this victim blaming. Blame the 20 year old adult who killed his mother for her guns. He was an honors student who went to college at 16 not a bloody force of nature.Let's say more gun control & restrictions would have prevented Adam Lanza from buying guns. His stupid mother bought him guns.
Thats not the problem. A marriage or long term relationship is financial as well as emotional. If I go dragging $10K year worth of guns a year home, as Ive been know to do, and the significant other is dead set against it, what do you think the eventual outcome will be even if I can afford it. My dad used to tell me "You can have whatever you can afford " when I asked him for ANYTHING when I was a kid. It was his way of saying NO but it stuck with me. Now I buy whatever it is I can afford . That frame of thought has pushed me into more lucrative jobs over the years so that I could afford more expensive things ( guns ) , maintain adequate savings and provide for the family in a pretty significant way . Having a rabid anti gunner as a wife wouldnt be a situation that either of us could deal with for long. Something would have to give. My wife isnt a gun lover but she sure isnt a gun hater. Her "pffft" is a lot better than "over my dead body" and has kept a marriage alive for almost 20 years.Refreshing to read that many here value love over RKBA.
Would you really like to live in a world, where everyone has to be like yourself?
America is too divided. That is done by one individual at a time.
From both sides.
Refreshing to read that many here value love over RKBA.
Would you really like to live in a world, where everyone has to be like yourself?
America is too divided. That is done by one individual at a time.
From both sides.
Best answer so far!!!No. My wife would shoot me if she thought I was dating someone else.
I agree with you on just about everything you said, however note that opposites who are attracted to other each have something the other is missing and needs almost all the time in essence they compliment each other.I have, though not recently (I've been married 7 years). My wife is VERY pro 2a thankfully. When I was still in the dating scene, the biggest problem I had with someone being an anti wasn't the fact that they didn't like guns, it was that there was most likely much larger fundamental differences between us. Most likely we didn't have similar political views and in some cases our social views would be different as well. You usually hangout with people that are similar to you, so in most cases that would mean that our friends would have nothing in common. Not that any of this is bad, a lot of times opposite attract. In my case it just wouldn't work out. Physical attraction is a big part of starting a relationship but a lot of other things have to fall in place to sustain one.
It's not about choosing someone like yourself, just someone who respects you enough to let you be yourself.Refreshing to read that many here value love over RKBA.
Would you really like to live in a world, where everyone has to be like yourself?
No, we have laws around here against such doings with relatives.Have you ever dated an anti? How'd it go?
Refreshing to read that many here value love over RKBA.
Would you really like to live in a world, where everyone has to be like yourself?
America is too divided. That is done by one individual at a time.
From both sides.
I see that you call the Northeast Kingdom home.Having moved to RI from VT, two out of the three women I've dated since I moved were unfamiliar with guns, and the one I'm currently dating started out as leaning towards anti-gun.
I find that for most people here it is an ignorance thing; they don't know anything about guns other than what the media tells them. My current girlfriend is very highly intelligent, and after just a few polite discussions she came around to the idea that guns aren't bad at all. Since then we've gone shooting together several times.
This is slightly off topic but I find it interesting: I'm going to school with students that are on average about eight years younger than me. Most of them are engineering students like myself and have no experience with guns, and also are from areas that are generally anti-gun, but they themselves are not anti-gun. Many, if not most, have expressed interest in learning to shoot when I bring it up.
I think my generation and younger ("millenials") have grown up in a world where we have learned to take what the mainstream media says with a grain of salt. We don't necessarily trust what our celebrities, our news, or our government says, and are more willing to do our own research and form our own opinions. I think this is a good sign for the future of the 2A and all other rights in this country.