Retiring officers
I've got a good friend who is at the end of his Federal Marshall career, another guy just retired from the Texas DPS, another has ridden motors in Dallas PD for 20+ years, another 18-year vet in the Abilene PD and a few more. To a man they say it isn't like it used to be. Every one of them thought it was an honorable profession when they went in. Now the ones close to retirement are counting the days and trying to stay out of sight. I don't think many of them make an argument that its the honorable profession they thought it was when they went in. Most of them have been in trouble with their departments to the edge of being fired. The fed three years ago got assigned to run the evidence locker and announced his intention to audit it, run it straight up and let the chips fall as they might. That was some trouble. After many threats they sent him to Iraq instead.
The fed was a sniper at Ruby Ridge, by the way, and the DPS guy watched the FBI load the famous metal doors, both of them, into a truck and drive off the Davidian Compound. (He testified about it in the trail, and endured several years of cold faces in the dept.) The Dallas motor cop stopped chasing people if they ran ten years ago. The Abilene PD guy refuses to shoot people, though he has the chance to about once a month. He says the young officers all shave their heads and "want to make their bones."
They have had interesting careers. But it's cost them.
I think if you were a single guy, that's one thing, but you would be taking your family into this. All of my friends are great guys but all of them have been married multiple times. The Fed has been married FIVE times, and isn't happy with the wife he has now. My friend I went to high school with that is the local public affairs officer is a secret drunk.
Every legislature in the country, plus the Feds, are cranking out an amazing cacophony of laws and regulations...and guess who is charged with enforcing those laws? And the rate of lawmaking is going up, up, up. Are you really sure you want to go into that mixmaster? Help enforce that.....stuff...against the population?
I'm sure you saw the video of the CHP guy mugging the lady in NO while lots of fed, local PD, armyMP and other LEOs stood around...and watched. Nobody lifted a hand or said a word. Because they thought it was RIGHT- to mug little old ladies. That's modern policing. Do you want to be part of that? Go behind that wall? It's going to get worse, not better.
There are plenty of interesting lives to be lived. Join the Army Reserve. Be a fireman. Join the Marines. Join the Coast Guard. Go to law school. Keep doing what you are doing but ramp it up to become a millionaire. Be an American. But please be very cautious about taking your family into law enforcement. It's not what it used to be.
But of course, if you do decide to do this, good luck and best wishes to you, your wife and that baby. Just don't go in with your eyes closed. As you have heard from many of the threads above, it's an exceedingly difficult, complex, conflicting and stressful career choice.