I used to get all kinds of grief from my wife....It was because I asked.
I stopped asking, the answer was always some form of NO! Now, she'll just say, aw-geez another one! To which I say Yes, you want to see it? to which she says NO! She still gets to say NO!, I get to buy guns!
I'm a reasonable person, and its not like I'm spending money we dont have. The bills are paid, money is in the bank, I work hard & do a lot of things myself on Cars, the house, etc. I deserve it now and then!